50 Reasons Confidence Is So Important In A Relationship

“You want to know what will kill your relationship...Overthinking. Overanalyzing. Replaying details in your head and coming up with different scenarios. Self doubt. Just let things happen naturally.”

— Kirsten Corley, facebook.com

“Good self-esteem attracts someone capable not only of healthy interactions but of loving you for who you are. If you’re not sure of yourself inside, you’ll seek validation outside.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“A woman who can hold a respectful, respectable conversation with a man and his mother is a keeper; a woman who shudders at the prospect of having to talk to the matriarch of a man’s family is a throwback.”

— Steve Harvey, amazon.com

“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”

— Maya Angelou, amazon.com

“It’s important to ask yourself this two-part question: What are you overvaluing about him at that moment? And, more important, what are you undervaluing about yourself?”

— Matthew Hussey, amazon.com

“If you don’t value yourself, you will always end up with the men at the bottom of the barrel.”

— Kara King, amazon.com

“Chasing a man may work out for a little while, but the happiest women understand that confidence comes from knowing he wants you.”

— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com

“Sex appeal is confidence, the ability not to ask anything of another but a willingness to offer yourself.”

— Joy Browne, amazon.com

“A high-value kind of woman has lots of self-confidence, is independent, and especially, will never ever let others take advantage of her.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“Never Want Someone Who Doesn’t Want You.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Selling yourself out means accepting behavior that you would otherwise consider unacceptable, or attempting to be someone you’re not. Maybe you don’t speak up anymore, maybe you aren’t the same bubbly, confident person you once were, or maybe you unquestioningly put him and his needs above your own.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Poor self-worth is what sabotages new relationships, traps us in bad relationships, and causes us to feel so devastated and broken when a relationship ends.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“One of the biggest obstacle standing in your way and stopping you from having the relationship you want is wanting the guys who don’t want you.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“People with high self-esteem don’t constantly question their actions or feel conflicted about the right thing to say or do.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Men appreciate women who value themselves, because it generally means that those women are happy with who they are and place a premium on their self-worth.”

— Steve Harvey, amazon.com

“People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Confident people accept responsibility for their actions and emotions.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“They just know that if it’s right, it will work out. And if it’s not right, they’ll move on.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Confident people do not stay in relationships where they don’t feel respected, appreciated, and valued.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“The fact is, if you don’t feel good about yourself, nothing he does will ever be enough. If you don’t truly believe you’re worthy of love, you will never believe someone can love you.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“A confident person will attract another confident person. An insecure person will unconsciously seek out relationships with men who are insecure and who will make them feel more insecure.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“An insecure person will unconsciously seek out relationships with men who are insecure and who will make them feel more insecure. They will want the unavailable guys, the guys who can’t commit, the guys who have walls up. These are the ones they will feel infatuated by, not the ones who show real, g…”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“If you don’t value yourself, then you will always be attracted to people who don’t value you either.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Confident people value and accept themselves for who they are. They embrace the good and are accepting of the not so good. As a result, they attract quality partners and are able to connect on a real, genuine level, one that leads to true intimacy and a healthy relationship.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“I constantly hear women say that there aren’t any good men and complain about all the things men won’t do. But I contend they don’t do the things that real men are expected to do because no one— especially, women— requires it of them.”

— Steve Harvey, amazon.com

“They cling to the belief that since they never experienced anything like that before, they never will again.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“You cannot make someone love you. You can only make yourself someone who can be loved.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them. They know that they are good, competent, and lovable, and trust that the right person for them will see this.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“If you don’t value yourself, you will go for someone who doesn’t treat you well, and you will be OK with it because he’s just validating how you feel about yourself.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com