31 Reasons 'Why Men Marry Bitches' And How To Win This Game Called Dating

“He doesn’t marry a woman who puts him on a throne. He marries a woman who is his equal . . . that special woman whom he can share all of life’s special moments with.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men want to feel special, and when you are too nice he feels ordinary, because he assumes you’d acquiesce and become a yes-person with any man.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The more control you have over yourself, the more of a hold you will have on his heart.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“A guy who really thinks you could be ‘the one’ will say very little about marriage. He’ll be much more reserved, and will slowly open up over the course of several months, because he won’t want to scare you off.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“A man will not be thinking about how much he spends on you if he believes you could be ‘the one.’ In the beginning, he will be happy to pick up the tab.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men admire women who want to elevate themselves and pull themselves up by their own bootstraps, and fear women who are social climbers at a man’s expense.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“[When you don't respond to him not calling] his imagination will run wild when he doesn’t hear from you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Once you start doing the same thing he was doing, suddenly, the bad behavior will magically disappear.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“When a man tries to make you jealous, it rarely has anything to do with his desire for someone else. When you are upset he gets the reassurance that you care.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“When you are easily manipulated, he will assume he doesn’t have to give as much in the way of a commitment in order to keep you there.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men are intrigued by anything they do not completely control.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Just because a man sleeps with you doesn’t mean he cares about you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The magic formula is to give a little . . . and then pull back. Give a little . . . and then pull back.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men love knowing there’s a small part of you that they can’t get to.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Don’t be so blunt, obvious, or available.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“There’s nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Don’t even mention the word ‘commitment.’ That’s the whole trick. The less you say about it, the closer you are to getting one.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“When a woman rushes in too quickly, a man will assume she is in love with a ‘fantasy’ or the idea of having a relationship. But if he has to slowly win her over, incrementally, he’ll think she’s falling in love with who he is.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Your power gets lost the minute you start asking, ‘Where do I stand?’ Because what you’ve just told him is that the terms of the relationship are now his to dictate.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“If he doesn’t respect your opinion, he won’t respect you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“When a man sees you wearing very revealing clothes, he’ll usually assume you don’t have anything else going for you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential..”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“He doesn’t marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The more control you have over yourself, the more of a hold you will have on his heart.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The more rational and calm you remain, the more emotional he will become.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“To avoid playing into his hands, you have to be a bitch with your actions, not your words.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“When a man is left guessing what you want, it makes commitment desirable because he has a chance to bring it up.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“What a quality guy secretly longs for is a lover who is also a best friend. And an equal partner.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“When a man likes you, he will be interested in finding out what you like. If he makes you happy, he feels more secure.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com