And this is not just linked to men. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to stay with a guy who continuously needs to be reassured that you still love him, like him, are fond of him, etc.
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Brian Keephimattracted
Some women try to cling on, they try to fix it... but I always tell my coaching clients: ‘you get one chance per person per lifetime’.
Don’t request or expect something from him that he doesn’t want to give you on his own.
A loss of freedom. That’s what they fear.
Your mind will come up with 101 reasons or excuses why he’s not calling, but the bottom line is this: he’s no longer interested.
Another topic to avoid are your exes, your past relationships. Don’t say anything about your ex, especially when he dropped you for any reason. The guy you’re talking to will see you as a victim; he’ll wonder what’s wrong with you, especially when you’re good looking. He’ll suppose there’s a catch,…
The reason why insecurity is so deadly is that it will drain him of his energy. He’ll have to continuously walk on egg shells, trying not to say anything wrong, trying to not to start a fight for reasons he doesn’t even understand.
Let me give it to you bluntly. Most men would be more attracted to a woman who’s got regular looks but is full of self-confidence and is just fun to be around than a supermodel with a killer body who thinks she’s not that pretty and who continuously needs attention and reassurance.
This may sound sexist, but in general, women are looking for commitment, and men are looking for the feeling of freedom.
The guy who deserves you will know and understand how valuable you are, and he’ll work hard not to lose you.
There are two types of attraction when it comes to men: sexual attraction and emotional attraction. Sexual attraction signifies that he wants you and your body. He wants to be inside you. Emotional attraction means that he wants to be with you, be around you, hang out with you. The perfect…
Men love it when you want them; they hate it when you need them.
Always be prepared to walk away when your guy or the relationship is not giving you what you want or deserve. That said, try to have realistic expectations.
Women who believe their guy is their only soul mate, the only guy who can ever make them happy quickly get into trouble. They get uptight, jealous, needy, scared and become the woman men run away from.
Carefully watch his actions; they will offer you an insight into his real cards, his real feelings.
A high-value kind of woman has lots of self-confidence, is independent, and especially, will never ever let others take advantage of her.
When a woman turns her entire life around her guy, it gives him some form of claustrophobia.
Men run away when they instinctively feel that a woman will be a drama-queen.