Do love yourself.
Catalog
Leslie Braswell
Do learn to love the chase.
Do make a list of requirements you must have in a relationship.
Don’t rush into sex.
Don’t date him if he doesn’t meet your requirements.
Don’t compete with other women.
Don’t accept last minute dates. If he’s not planning dates accept he’s not interested.
Don’t agree to last minute dates. If he asks to meet that day, tell him you would love to, but can’t. Make a suggestion for at least three days later, or the next week.
Don’t ask him for a date; wait for him to ask you. If he doesn’t ask you, know he’s not interested.
Don’t respond to ‘nothing’ text messages.
Don’t answer every time he calls. For every three attempts he makes only respond to one.
Don’t try to resolve problems by telephone or text messages.
Don’t go to frequent places you know he’ll be.
Don’t try to change his mind, beg, plead or cry in front of him.
Don’t try to remain friends.
Patience shows self-control and maturity, two qualities men love in a woman. It shows him that you have control over your own emotions. Focus on becoming the most amazing woman you can be. Say and repeat to yourself
Chasing a man may work out for a little while, but the happiest women understand that confidence comes from knowing he wants you.
And remember, the happiest relationships come from the man being the pursuer.
For every three to four attempts he makes to contact you only reply to one.
By giving Mr. Ex space, and more importantly silence… you transfer those feelings of loss, rejection and abandonment that he placed on you, right back to him. Often men fail to realize what they have until it is gone and it’s your job to make him realize what he’s lost.