“He Disappears for Days or Weeks at a Time, Then Acts Like It Was No Big Deal”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If a guy truly cares about you, he will want to make room for you in his life. Even if he has a lot going on and won’t be available for a few days, he’ll send a text or message to let you know he’s thinking about you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If a guy doesn’t share his true self with you, if he won’t let you see who he is at his core, the chances are high that he’s not in it for the long haul and doesn’t see a future with you. If you’re really unsure about whether or not a guy is serious about you, take a look at the things you know…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you’ve been hurt in the past, try to see if you can identify any old wounds you’re still carrying around with you. Think about how you interpreted the situation at the time and see if you can spot any faulty beliefs about yourself that may have developed. Then do whatever you need to in order to…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“In the years that followed, I became hardened and my once open heart was now unable to feel anything for any man I dated.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“To get the relationship that lasts, you have to come to terms with all the ones that didn’t.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Anytime a negative thought pops into your mind (I’ll never find a boyfriend… I’m going to end up alone… Men always leave me), pluck it out and tell yourself the opposite. This applies not only to relationships, it applies to and can be used to enhance all areas of your life. Our thoughts have a huge…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice
“If we dwell on something, even for under a minute, our mind becomes programmed to pick it up.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you believe you’re unattractive, you will dismiss everyone who compliments your appearance and will write it off as them just being nice. When someone says something that implies they don’t find you attractive, you’ll grab hold of it and will use it as proof of your original belief.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Your reality is created in large part by your filter system. If you believe that the guys you want will never want you, you will find a justification for this fear even if it’s far from the case. Once you come to expect the behavior, you create a self-fulfilling prophecy.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“For instance, if you are afraid of rejection, all you’ll pick up on is being rejected. A hundred people can tell you how great and wonderful you are, but it won’t sink in. All that will stand out to you is the one person who didn’t seem to be interested in you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Remember, damage cases are a waste of time and energy. Wanting a guy who doesn’t want you is a tragedy. Time is a precious thing to waste, so get to work and undo the faulty wiring that leads you to the guys who can’t appreciate you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“One of the biggest obstacle standing in your way and stopping you from having the relationship you want is wanting the guys who don’t want you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Good self-esteem attracts someone capable not only of healthy interactions but of loving you for who you are. If you’re not sure of yourself inside, you’ll seek validation outside.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“In order to attract a real relationship, you first need to make sure that you are in the right place emotionally. Make sure you want a relationship for the right reasons, not just to fill a void or make you feel better about yourself. You also need to develop a firm sense of who you are and learn…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“If you’re afraid of getting hurt or feel like the guys you want always leave you, then you might subconsciously be putting up walls to protect yourself.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you don’t value yourself, you will go for someone who doesn’t treat you well, and you will be OK with it because he’s just validating how you feel about yourself.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“A lot of women are way too quick to dismiss a guy before really giving him a fair shot.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guys Advice, Relationship Advice
“Another problem is that most women have adopted a sometimes inflexible idea that it’s ‘better to be alone than to settle.’ Taken to an extreme, this mindset causes many women to close themselves off to guys with amazing traits just because of some superficial flaw that rules him out as their dream…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Most women are usually at one extreme or the other: desperate and willing to put up with anything, or too picky and unwilling to ‘settle’ for anything less than their dream man.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice