“For instance, if you are afraid of rejection, all you’ll pick up on is being rejected. A hundred people can tell you how great and wonderful you are, but it won’t sink in. All that will stand out to you is the one person who didn’t seem to be interested in you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Remember, damage cases are a waste of time and energy. Wanting a guy who doesn’t want you is a tragedy. Time is a precious thing to waste, so get to work and undo the faulty wiring that leads you to the guys who can’t appreciate you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“One of the biggest obstacle standing in your way and stopping you from having the relationship you want is wanting the guys who don’t want you.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Good self-esteem attracts someone capable not only of healthy interactions but of loving you for who you are. If you’re not sure of yourself inside, you’ll seek validation outside.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“In order to attract a real relationship, you first need to make sure that you are in the right place emotionally. Make sure you want a relationship for the right reasons, not just to fill a void or make you feel better about yourself. You also need to develop a firm sense of who you are and learn…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice
“If you’re afraid of getting hurt or feel like the guys you want always leave you, then you might subconsciously be putting up walls to protect yourself.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you don’t value yourself, you will go for someone who doesn’t treat you well, and you will be OK with it because he’s just validating how you feel about yourself.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“A successful relationship comes down to two things: the right person at the right time. The first thing that’s important to remember when it comes to relationships is that in general, like attracts like. That is, what you are or think you are is what you will attract.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship
“Another problem is that most women have adopted a sometimes inflexible idea that it’s ‘better to be alone than to settle.’ Taken to an extreme, this mindset causes many women to close themselves off to guys with amazing traits just because of some superficial flaw that rules him out as their dream…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Most women are usually at one extreme or the other: desperate and willing to put up with anything, or too picky and unwilling to ‘settle’ for anything less than their dream man.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“A guy wants to feel chosen by a woman he had to earn. He doesn’t want to feel like he’s just filling a spot that could have easily gone to any other man with a pulse.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Neediness is a state of mind where you feel incomplete, or have an emotional void, and try to fill this empty space with a relationship or male validation.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“There’s no faster way to repel a man than to need him. Wanting a man is not the same as needing one.”Tagged: Needing Men, Relationship Advice, Guy Advice, Dating Advice
“You cannot make someone love you. You can only make yourself someone who can be loved.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“But why do I have to play all these games? Why can’t I just be who I am! It’s ridiculous to have to strategize every single move I make.’ Yes, this is true. Game playing can seem immature or even silly. It’s not that you need to play games to get the guy, it’s that you need to be a certain kind of…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“The most common trap women fall into in relationships is trying to be good enough for the guy. They get stuck plotting and planning their every move in an effort to prove their worth to him. This is the worst way to be in a relationship. For one, it reeks of insecurity and neediness. It also puts…”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and don’t question how someone feels about them. They know that they are good, competent, and lovable, and trust that the right person for them will see this.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Good self-esteem attracts someone capable not only of healthy interactions but of loving you for who you are. If you’re not sure of yourself inside, you’ll seek validation outside.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you are emotionally unavailable, you will attract a guy who is emotionally unavailable. Now, you can want to be in a relationship and at the same time be unavailable in your own way. If you’re afraid of getting hurt or feel like the guys you want always”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice