“I know that at 41, I’m not as attractive as I was at 20, People tell me, ‘You say that because you’ve integrated a masculine vision of desire.’ No, not at all. It’s because, she says, “We’re born, we grow up, we get stronger, we have a peak of physical and sensual power. And then we get older, and become weaker, and uglier, and we die. We need to digest that.”