Comparing yourself to other people. It sucks. Either you’re gonna feel below someone or you’re gonna feel above someone. It’s never ACTUALLY a good, full feeling. So my advice is to stop. Just stop comparing. If you can’t be happy for someone’s success, if you can’t be inspired by someone’s achievements, then don’t go looking for things that will upset you. It will only make you feel jealous and less than. But the truth is, you’re not less than! You’re just on your own journey with your own circumstances. So you can’t really compare yourself to others. It’s not an equal or fair competition. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, last month, last year!!! See how you’ve grown. And you know what, if you’re feeling jealous - know that it’s a totally natural human feeling. It’s ok. Just embrace it and let it go. Holding on is toxic.

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