Being vulnerable means becoming someone that somebody else wants to take care of. A man is at his best when he protects the woman of his choice and comes up with solutions for her problems. He likes to be admired for the ways he comes to the rescue. He wants to feel needed as her rock and her hero. Men love to prove their worthiness; letting them in provides their excuses for contacting you as well as their strategy for convincing you to agree to a date.

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