"What’s important is that you make the leap. Jump high and ha..." — Cheryl Strayed

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What’s important is that you make the leap. Jump high and hard with intention and heart. Pay no mind to the vision that the commission made up. It’s up to you to make your life. Take what you have and stack it up like a tower of teetering blocks. Build your dream around that.

— Cheryl Strayed

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