“After the revelation of an affair, some couples have the most passionate sex they’ve ever had. That’s a big, unspoken truth. There’s something about the fear of loss that triggers desire and a depth of conversation that helps some people access a new level of honesty.”
More from Esther Perel
“Committed sex is premeditated sex.”
“Very often we don’t go elsewhere because we are looking for another person. We go…”
“Between sips of kale juice at the Soho Grand, a chic Manhattan hotel near her apartment,…”
“We don’t know the exact numbers because people lie about sex and 10 times more about…”