“Divide and conquer. You already know that propping up your bottom during missionary positions allows for deeper access, but letting him pull you up into his lap puts yourself in a more vulnerable position, with most of your weight on your upper back and shoulders. If he has larger hands, he should be able to holds your hands to your calves, though if you’re up for it (and flexible enough to keep your legs straight) he can tie your wrists to your legs, freeing up his hands to rove all over your body. If your starts to bend your legs? Well, it’s up to him to think of an appropriate punishment.”
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