“~Sex is mental before physical—turning us into your mothers during non-sexual moments really shuts off the sexual energy ability in the bedroom later on.

~No foreplay? No 'good' sex. Prime, prime, prime rule.

~Communicate. Clearly and often. Good talking = good sexing.

~Create a safe environment for the 'freaky' side to come out—don't push, pressure, or lose patience. All those things will stuff that little freaky-deaky further back into the dark corners of our libidos.

~Activities out of the bedroom (dates, walks, time together, etc.) fuel energy into sexy times. You get out what you put in!”