“If a man believes he is winning in the relationship more than he ever could on his own, then he will commit. If he feels as though being in the relationship shuts down his ability to win (and feel like a winner) and that he would have an easier time outside the relationship, then that’s when commitment becomes an issue. That’s when he shuts down and doesn’t want to move forward.”
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