“If every guy you have ever dated has treated you poorly and broken your heart, then you need to consider that you are probably choosing the wrong men. If you stay with a guy even though he has made it clear he can’t or won’t give you what you want, and the relationship deteriorates, you can’t exactly blame him. It’s much easier to point the finger at someone else when we feel hurt, but there comes a point when we need to learn to take responsibility for our own happiness.”