10 Things Every Hopeless Romantic Hates About Modern Dating

For you, even dating should be passionate. Being ‘chill’ or indifferent with the people you like will always be something you struggle with. Playing it cool is a game you hate playing.

— Rania Naim, thoughtcatalog.com

Modern Dating Games

Nothing drives you crazy like inconsistency does. You want consistent communication, consistent dates and you want to be a part of this person’s everyday life — not just on weekends.

— Rania Naim, thoughtcatalog.com

Modern Dating Feelings Inconsistency

It comes naturally to you to say how you feel, even if it’s too early, so you’re always caught between wanting to say how you feel and waiting for the right moment when the other person is ready or if you’re sure they feel the same way.

— Rania Naim, thoughtcatalog.com

Modern Dating Feelings the talk

For you, words of affirmation are everything and having to wait a few hours to text back, or keeping your messages short and cool is your worst nightmare because you have so much more you would like to say and you hate that responding immediately makes you look ‘too available.’

— Rania Naim, thoughtcatalog.com

Modern Dating Texting

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