“Criticism. It’s to be avoided at all costs. Nothing will turn off your partner faster than you telling him what you DON’T like and what you don’t want taking place. On the other hand, what will be a complete arousal and turn-on is letting him know what he CAN do to please you and what will excite yo…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, Criticism, complaints, Whining
“Not taking the lead. Don’t wait to get asked to dance…meaning you’ve got to take the lead. You don’t have to wait for your partner to ask you to have sex or make love with them. Get involved, get into bed, take the lead and get your partner into bed with you. You’ll both have a lot of fun and enjoy…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, first move, initiate
“Comfy clothes. I know that you want to be in those comfortable jammies that you wear, but honestly, the quickest turn-off to your partner or spouse is your comfy clothes. So, if you want to spice things up in your love life, shed those comfy clothes and put on a sexy bra or nightie; something you ca…”— Charlene Bert, galtime.comTagged: Never Do During Sex, pajamas, Comfort, lingerie