“Has your ex started losing weight, gotten a tan, and started playing that sport you mentioned wanting to try? Better yet, does he seem intent on sharing it with you? Often in an effort to right the wrongs of a failed relationship, an ex will try to change all of the things that their ex didn’t like…”— Elizabeth Stone, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Exes, Change, weight loss
“Someone who still cares will often keep returning to re-hash what went wrong. This can be a way to sate his guilt, but it can also mean that he is trying to reconcile through the back door, often completely confusing you in the process.”— Elizabeth Stone, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Exes, Guilt, Reconcile, Apologies
“Having any feelings at all toward you is a hell of a lot better than NO feelings. If he is still feeling hurt or angry enough to bother confronting you, that is actually a good sign. In the words of Elie Wiesel, ‘The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.'”— Elizabeth Stone, thoughtcatalog.comTagged: Exes, Feelings, Anger, emotions