“Let the people who want infinite choices take them and savor the hell out of them. Let them sample the fruits of seduction to infinity and beyond. I want one flavor forever, and I can’t get enough of it. It is not boring, bitches. It is not boring. Hold out for exactly what you want. Believe in it.…”— Heather Havrilesky, thecut.comTagged: Enough, Relationships, Love, How to be good at love, The way forward
“I have to tell you that the dream is real, motherfucker. The dream is real and it’s worth it. Life is not long and boring, it’s short and exciting, and sex with someone who you love like crazy does not get worse and worse, it gets better and better. Knowing that someone is on your side — really, tru…”— Heather Havrilesky, thecut.comTagged: Enough, Relationships, Love, How to be good at love, The way forward
“The question of your worthiness is not on the table at all. You know what you want. Embrace that and stand up for it without huffing the spray paint that everyone else is huffing.”— Heather Havrilesky, thecut.comTagged: Enough, Relationships, Love, How to be good at love, The way forward
“Claiming that you’re ‘not enough’ for someone who wants an open relationship is like saying that a socket wrench is not enough for a freshwater trout. The two things are completely unrelated to each other. That’s why arguing ‘I should be enough for you!’ does nothing. What you should say is: I will…”— Heather Havrilesky, thecut.comTagged: Enough, Relationships, Love, How to be good at love, The way forward