“If you notice yourself falling into "blah" relationships, think about how you describe these guys to your friends. Discussing external attributes—"he has a great finance job"—rather than specific anecdotes and internal traits—"he’s so funny he made me shoot soda out of my nose"—may be a sign that yo…”— Anita Chlipala, shape.comTagged: Standards, Relationships, Love, Lust