“We may not be able to change others’ sex-negative judgments immediately, but we can change how we react when we are sexually shamed. I once had a lover tell me a certain sexual position felt too ‘pornlike.’ My first instinct was to feel like I’d done something taboo, when I should have acknowledged…”— Rachel Kramer Bussel, damemagazine.comTagged: Casual Sex, Sex, Porn, Shame, Slut Shaming