“Do you know who you are looking for, or will you settle for the first person who pays attention to you? As a human, I know you love attention, but you are better than that.”— Nicole Parry, elitedaily.com
“You committed to the things you are passionate about? Is there even anything in your life you are passionate about other than finding a relationship? Have you ever put off your morning run or been late for work because you wanted to continue cuddling? Commitment to yourself is something you must mas…”— Nicole Parry, elitedaily.com
“You love yourself? I mean, for real. Spend a day in your own shoes, and listen to the things you tell yourself. Do you put yourself down often? If you cannot speak to yourself in a kind way, why would you expect someone else to treat you kindly?”— Nicole Parry, elitedaily.com
“Do I even want to be in a relationship? If you’ve been in lots of relationships, if you’ve recently gotten out of a draining one, or if you just love being single, maybe you should be. And there’s nothing wrong with that.”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“Do my friends and family like this person? Usually, the people who know you best also know what’s best for you.”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“Would I be proud to introduce this person as my partner? When you get into a new relationship, eventually, you’ll have to introduce them to everyone in your life. Are you excited about this? If the answer is no, I’d run.”— Patrick Banks, lifehack.org
“Am I really interested in this person? I, for one, have made the mistake of dating someone just because. I was bored and confused and blinded to the fact that they were completely wrong for me. They were great; they just weren’t great for me. I was more interested in telling them about myself, than…”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“Does this person bring out the best in me? How do you feel when you’re with them? How do you behave? Are you able to be your complete self?”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“What characteristics am I looking for in a partner? Confidence? Sense of humor? Humility? Kindness? Motivation? Hard work? Does your prospective partner embody most of these characteristics?”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“Do I love myself? If you don’t feel deserving of love, you might doubt or deny the love you receive from someone else, which can be extremely frustrating for them.”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“What do I want out of this relationship? Maybe you’re looking for support. Maybe you’re looking for companionship or love. Maybe you’re looking for a best friend. Maybe you’re simply looking for a ‘good time.’ Again, it’s important to determine these things before entering into a new relationship.”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“What kind of relationship am I looking for? In other words, how serious do you want it to be? This is important, not only for your own sake, but for the sake of your new, potential partner. Are you looking for a fun fling? Or are you ready to settle down?”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“What did not work in past relationships? Perhaps you sacrificed too much for your last partner. Perhaps it lacked trust or honesty. Maybe your relationship didn’t work because of the distance. Make a list of all the things that went wrong in your prior relationships and find solutions.”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“Am I truly over my ex? To make #1 more specific, ask yourself this. Do not enter a new relationship if your answer is no, and you secretly want your ex back.”— PATRICK BANKS, lifehack.org
“What kind of financial security do you expect this man to have? (Do you want him to be rich? Do you want him to make more money than you? Are you okay with a blue-collar worker?)”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“What level of commitment do you expect? (Do you want an open relationship? Or to date exclusively? Should it be up for discussion?)”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com