“Patience shows self-control and maturity, two qualities men love in a woman. It shows him that you have control over your own emotions. Focus on becoming the most amazing woman you can be. Say and repeat to yourself”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“Chasing a man may work out for a little while, but the happiest women understand that confidence comes from knowing he wants you.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“And remember, the happiest relationships come from the man being the pursuer.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“For every three to four attempts he makes to contact you only reply to one.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“By giving Mr. Ex space, and more importantly silence… you transfer those feelings of loss, rejection and abandonment that he placed on you, right back to him. Often men fail to realize what they have until it is gone and it’s your job to make him realize what he’s lost.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“Helen Rowland once said, ‘A man is like a cat; chase him and he will run. Sit still and ignore him and he’ll come purring at your feet.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“Your only job is to show him you can live without him. Show him you do not need him and you might be surprised how fast he comes looking for you. Most importantly -- make your exit with class, dignity and pride intact.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“We attract men that mirror ourselves; the law of attraction is that likes attract likes. So if you are not in love with yourself, or even in like with yourself chances are it’s going to be hard to attract a man that not only loves you, but likes you too.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“Realistically, if the two of you really shared a deep connection, Mr. Ex will have made contact with you within thirty days. If Mr. Ex makes No Contact within sixty days it’s very safe to assume your relationship is over.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“I believe in true love. If there is a person that you feel connected with and believe in your heart it’s meant to be, who am I, or anyone else to tell you differently. If you fear not contacting him will make him forget you, you need not worry. Absence truly does make the heart grow fonder.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“You may try to justify to yourself that it is perfectly fine to call him now because you have been in a long-term relationship and the rules don’t apply to you. This unfortunately is where many women go wrong. Now, more than ever you have to sit back and let him initiate contact first.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“At the end of the day, what proves you are a class act is when you can remain calm, cool and collected even in times of trouble.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“Continue to make posts in the same manner you have done in the past few weeks or months. If you never posted anything before, no need to start now. If you begin to post or tweet every aspect of your life to prove to the world how happy you are, it will only draw attention.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“He cannot possibly experience what life is like without you if he sees your pretty face in a post or tweet every day.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“He knows the accidental text ploy. No ‘accidentally’ sending a text message to him by mistake to later claim it was intended for your sisters-cousins, best friends-brother. No nothing. Silence.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“He received your message! A good rule to live by is if you send a text message and receive no response--you should never send a second one.”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“You want him to know how you feel and to understand how much pain you’re experiencing. You want him to know without a doubt you love him and how much you’re hurting. You believe by conveying this information to him, he’ll come back to you. You’re wrong! The only message you’re sending to him is you…”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com
“And by the way, if you have to ask where you stand in a relationship that is a big, flashing neon warning sign that there is no relationship!”— Leslie Braswell, amazon.com