“For better or worse, women have had magazine upon magazine (and limitless porn videos) teach us how to sound sexy in bed, and boy oh boy do we understand the value of it. Meanwhile, it’s perfectly acceptable for men to be silent the entire time they’re having sex, but that shouldn’t be the case.”— Sophia Benoit, gq.com
“Sex is not a time to chat. In fact, it's one of the few instances in my overly articulated, exceedingly verbal life where it is perfectly appropriate -- if not preferable -- to shut up. And now suddenly I have to worry about being stumped for conversation? -- no thank you.”— Darren Star, Miranda Hobbes, Cynthia Nixon, imdb.com
“Try something new like role-play or dirty talk, and set aside time for sex – studies have shown that the more sex you have, the more sex you want.”— Laura Hoxworth, hercampus.com
“If even the most innocent conversations feel naughty, then there’s definitely sexual tension between you two. There’s no reason for a conversation about your mole removal to be steamy. If it somehow takes a sexual turn, then your minds are both in the gutter together.”— Holly Riordan, bolde.com
“Would it make you upset if you saw me making out with a really hot woman?”— Rebecca Mercy, vixendaily.com
“While you’re telling him what you want him to do and how to do it, get a little filthy with your vocabulary.”— Amelia McDonell-Parry, thefrisky.com
“Talk dirty to him. If you're not used to it, it may feel WAY awkward, but the more you do it, the more second-nature it will become. And there's a bonus! It may turn you on, too.”— Becky, thestir.cafemom.com
“As you’re having sex, look at what your partner is doing to you, and narrate all of the action to yourself. For example, ‘he’s using his tongue to trace circles around my clitoris. Now he’s flicking my clitoris with the tip of his tongue.’ This suggestion might sound kind of silly, but it can be ext…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Have you ever had a wet dream about me? Be honest… I had one about you this morning.”— Violet Benson, thoughtcatalog.com
“I was looking at my tits in the mirror and thinking about how much better they’d look with your cum on them.”— Adrienne West, thoughtcatalog.com
“I’m stressed. I need you to fuck me until I can’t remember my name.”— Adrienne West, thoughtcatalog.com
“I just reached a hand into my underwear and can’t believe how wet I am.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com