“Find out what his fantasies are and make them happen. Once you discover there is something he’d like to try, an outfit he finds very sexy, or a place he’s dreaming of making love in, try to make it happen for him. Take your time, plan it, and if you can surprise him with it, even better.”— Ana, lovefromana.com
“If he's kind of annoying--BUT you have sexual fantasies about him nonetheless--that person would be a good candidate for a casual-sex partner. He himself will be a constant reminder about why the relationship could never work out. The minute he opens his mouth, the reason will be clear.”— Maura Kelly, marieclaire.com
“Start by exploring the idea of hooking up with another woman using your imagination. This may sound like an overly simplistic piece of advice, but it can be quite useful.”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“Share fantasies. Fantasies are a creative way to keep your sex life fun and interesting. Fantasies can be as simple as having sex in a daring place to something more elaborate that involves costumes and props. Fantasies are a great way to explore different parts of yourself and your partner too.”— Rebecca Lowrie, sex.sofeminine.co.uk
“You spend your whole life stuck in the labyrinth, thinking about how you'll escape one day, and how awesome it will be, and imagining that future keeps you going, but you never do it. You just use the future to escape the present.”— John Green, amazon.com
“And as a single woman you have the luxury of playing around with an alter ego. Sometimes everyone needs a break from the routine of day-to-day life. A one night stand employing a fantasy persona is a break from being the fabulous woman you are and be another fabulous woman.”— Jill Di Donato, huffingtonpost.com
“People's fantasies are what give them problems. If you didn't have fantasies you wouldn't have problems because you'd just take whatever was there.”— Andy Warhol, amazon.com