We're not gonna hug in front of this whole town. So why don't we just both do that bro thing where we nod like douches and mutually suppress our emotions?
— Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa, Jughead Jones, Cole Sprouse, imdb.com
We're not gonna hug in front of this whole town. So why don't we just both do that bro thing where we nod like douches and mutually suppress our emotions?
— Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa, Jughead Jones, Cole Sprouse, imdb.com
At every turn, women are taught that how someone reacts to them does more to establish their goodness and worth than anything they themselves might feel.
One side effect of teaching one gender to outsource its pleasure to a third party (and endure a lot of discomfort in the process) is that they're going to be poor analysts of their own discomfort, which they have been persistently taught to ignore.
This is also how women are taught to be good hosts. To subordinate their desires to those of others. To avoid confrontation.
Women are supposed to perform comfort and pleasure they do not feel under conditions that make genuine comfort almost impossible.
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