Also remember to be a little bit patient. It may take him longer to approach you, than it would take you to approach him. Men work on their own time and this could be for a number of reasons. Sometimes it's because they have a fear of rejection. Other times it's because they don't realize.
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If he hasn’t been treating you the way you deserve or want to be treated… let him go. Don’t allow your emotions to put you into a position to be used or hurt.
You’re going to give your emotions the time they need to heal. If you have a wound on your knee, do you keep picking at it? No. You wrap it up and leave it alone until it heals. Your emotions are no different.
You were reacting to feelings when you needed to be controlling them. Simply put, you were acting with your heart, instead of listening to your head.
When you master the ability to control your emotions, you take away a man’s power over you.
It’s also important for a woman to consider the smile she wears when her face is at rest. As I keep repeating throughout this book, men are observing your behavior and often spot you long before you see them. Walking around with the ‘too-cool-to-smile’ diva look on your face is uninviting and not wa…
First, she must dress and groom better than the women she most associates with. And secondly, she must dress and groom at least slightly better than the venue requires. Exceptionality is the fair price she must pay for a man’s undivided attention.
Eye contact is the single most effective way for encouraging a man to approach you.
Here’s the blunt truth: Eighty to ninety percent of your chances of being approached by a man is dependent on how physically attractive you are to him.
Give him your undivided attention and really try to live in the moment by facing and focusing on him.
If you have enjoyed your first interaction with your perfect gentleman, ensure that he is firmly aware of it. Cast your fears aside and indicate your hopes of a future meeting with him. Once you have hinted… let him lead.
Men crave the sincere admiration of women. Thus, a genuine, well-crafted compliment will stir a man’s confidence and make him feel manlier in your presence. No man can resist or soon forget a woman who makes him like himself even more.
For relationship-minded men, modesty equates to quality.
Begin to see yourself as a woman who has way more to offer others than what you take from them. An abundance attitude leads to generous behavior that makes a woman appear magnanimous and a pleasure to be around.
While I don’t advocate chasing or pursuing a man, there’s nothing wrong with initiating contact.
When she is free from needing, she is free to engage with men with confidence and authenticity. When she is not desperate for the attention of men, a woman is more likely to receive it.
Confidence is the secret sauce to being more approachable to men or escalating a friendship into something more romantic.
Men are very wary of women who appear to be the mini-celebrities of a particular venue. Unless he himself has a higher social status at that very location, the handsome observer will turn his eyes toward less intimidating women.
The dance floor makes excellent hunting grounds for drunken gropers and pick-up artists. Limit your time spent there if you wish to lower the chances of encountering such men.
To court the attention of such men, a woman would be wise to treat people with overflowing kindness.