“A man is initially fueled by his fantasies to be with you, which grow stronger the longer he must wait. He needs to prove himself to receive your time and attention, and to ultimately sacrifice his freedom to keep you off the market. The thought of you being with another man is his greatest fear.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“If you’re seeking a relationship because you feel lonely or bored or think it would be nice to have someone to help you financially, you will attract an undesirable man.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“If you want a specific man to fall in love you, you must become desirable enough for any and every man to fall in love with you. Only then is he truly lucky to have you, because your high regard for him has value.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“The less you want a man, the easier it is for him to fall in love with you because your reactions are natural and uncensored.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“Women who wrap men around their fingers know how to make a man feel needed and that his help is appreciated.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“Set intentions rather than expectations. Feminine energy is being open and receptive to each moment. Be gracious for all he provides without expecting more.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“No matter how independent you are, a man needs to feel capable of being your hero, that you need him for protection, and for the ways in which he adds value to your life. Thank him for all that he does.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“You only want to date men who love you, and who make your life better than it already is.”— Cat Volz, amazon.com
“And here’s the incredible thing about women I don’t quite understand: you know when a man is not feeling you yet you still give your all, you continue to try to make it work. Why play that game? Why not just weed out, up front, all the men you know are going to do nothing but cause you heartache and…”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“Treat sex as if it’s something special and let the man you’re interested in know that it’s special, and guess what? He’ll either leave— which is what you want this guy to do if you’re in the market for a serious relationship— or he’ll see something special in you and do what it takes to meet your st…”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“I said it before and I’ll say it again: the man who refuses to give you time to investigate whether he’s worthy of intimacy with you is not your man.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“A woman who cares about herself and how she presents herself to the world, and looks like she’d elevate our game, is the woman who will get our attention.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“All a man is concerned about when he first sees a woman is how she looks, how she’s dressed, and what she’ll look like on our arm when we’re strolling along.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“There are plenty of good men ready, willing, and capable of doing right by you if you let them. And you have every right to weed through them to get to what you want and stand firm until you get it.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“If a woman looks engaging, we’ll engage her. But if she looks like one of those cold women who will meet our advances with hostility and act disinterested when any man even looks in her direction, well, yeah: men aren’t going to talk to her.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“Everybody needs somebody. And everybody has voids they need filled: they want companionship, a family, someone to help them feel safe, someone to share their dreams with, someone who can be a male role model in their home, someone willing to listen to their problems and maybe even offer up a few sug…”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“Men don’t mind strong, independent, capable women by any stretch. What we do mind is feeling like we’re not needed.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com
“You got a couple years to date a few women while you figure this thing out, and once you decide who you are, what you want to do, and how you want to make your money, go get a partner who can help you accomplish these things.”— Steve Harvey, amazon.com