“Men don't place the same significance on certain things as women do. While women see constant texts as a sign that a guy really likes them, men don't see text messages and two-hour-long phone calls as necessary or important for bonding and building relationships.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“When a woman is happy and not looking to get validation from the relationship, she transmits an irresistible vibe that draws her guy in, and he naturally becomes more invested in her and the relationship.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“When a woman jumps ahead and invests in a fantasy future, she becomes filled with fear and is no longer able to be present and in the moment. This blocks a true connection from forming.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“You are no longer in the here and now, seeing the situation for what it is. Instead, your mind is focusing on what it could be, and that’s when it becomes a problem.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“I am always on guard when a girl goes all in too fast and I'd say most guys are. No guy wants to hurt a girl; it makes us feel like really terrible people. Girls get very attached quickly, every guy knows this, so if I'm not ready to handle it, and I’m not sure I want to go all in, I'll just end it.…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“Men are not thinking about commitment or where the relationship is going. They are simply enjoying the time spent with you and building a bond and a connection. If it feels good, he’ll keep going with it.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“I was taking his words to be solid facts rather than expressions of fleeting feelings he was experiencing in the moment. Also like most women, I would jump way too many steps ahead any time I saw potential with a guy, and I would use any positive thing he said or did as proof that he wanted the same…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“The idea of letting a guy choose you gets twisted in modern dating advice. Women are told to hold back and play hard to get. But showing interest in a guy isn’t the problem. Only a guy with extremely low self-esteem will run from a woman he likes when she really likes him. The problem is when he fee…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“It’s not that men don’t want to commit, it’s that men resent being backed into a corner and forced into something. It’s not a matter of him not wanting to be official with you, or not wanting the relationship to progress, or not wanting to give you the love and affection you need, it’s the feeling t…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“The sad fact is, most people are starving to connect in a real and genuine way. They want to be their authentic selves and feel loved for who they are. They want to be supported by someone who is their partner. At the same time, they are terrified that they don’t really deserve these things, or that…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“When a woman is needy, she isn’t receptive to what a man gives her because she’s always desperate for more.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“If you believe that a man holds the key to your happiness, you are laying the groundwork for difficult relationships and chronic dissatisfaction.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“It’s not what you say, it’s the way you say it. When you come at a man from a blaming or accusatory place, he will automatically shut down. But when you approach him from a place of love and compassion, he will rise up and want to do whatever you ask and more.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“When it comes to relationship fears, most women fear being unworthy of love while men typically fear not being good enough.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“The reason most of us have such a hard time pushing past a man’s walls and reaching him deeply is that we fixate on our own wants, our own worries, our own fears, our own needs, and pay no attention to how he feels and experiences things.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“An important thing to realize is that often when we feel upset or disappointed by a guy, it’s actually a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. We don’t feel good about ourselves and we want him to give us assurances that we are worthy and lovable, to prop up our sense of self-worth. When he doe…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“A man also needs to feel like his girl has his best interests at heart — that she can give him space when he needs it, doesn't always prioritize her needs over his, and respects his wishes.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“When you express appreciation to a man for the things he does, he will do even more. That’s because appreciation taps into the deepest core of a man. It’s not just about saying ‘thank you’ when he does something nice, although that’s important. Really appreciating a man comes down to seeing who he t…”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com
“Discover his values, his motivations, what he wants out of life and how he goes about achieving it, and appreciate him for these things.”— Sabrina Alexis, Eric Charles, amazon.com