“We not only wish to be pleased, but to be pleased in that particular way in which we have been accustomed to be pleased.”— William Wordsworth, amazon.com
“Sometimes we must undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves, in order to discover two truths: that we are not who we thought we were; and that the loss of a cherished pleasure is not necessarily the loss of true happiness and we…”— Jean-Yves Leloup, amazon.com
“Act like all that matters is my pleasure and how I feel. That makes me sound selfish, but it makes me want to do to the same to the other party and makes me want to try to match their efforts. It can make for a very intense sexual experience.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.com
“Many women forget that guys adore seeing their girlfriend or partner get off. So the next time you are in a girl on top sex position stop thinking about whether or not you are pleasing your man. Instead just focus on what feels best for you.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Few pleasures there are indeed without the after touch of pain, but that is the preservation which keeps them sweet.”— Hellen Keller, amazon.com
“Pleasure is, and must remain, a side-effect or by-product, and is destroyed and spoiled to the degree to which it is made a goal in itself.”— Viktor E. Frankl, amazon.com
“Think about how badly you feel when you have let your partner unsatisfied when having sex. You don’t have to worry about that when you are in a casual relationship. A casual relationship is one that is based on independent satisfaction. You worry about getting yours and your partner worries about hi…”— J. Dallas, bustle.com
“Virginity in itself is simply a made-up concept. Everyone talks about losing your virginity, but it is not something to be lost! If anything, you’re gaining from it, whether that be pleasure, commitment, promise, experience, or whatever it is you want to receive from it.”— Chelsea Moudry, thoughtcatalog.com
“A woman isn't a whore for wanting pleasure. If it were unnatural, we would not be born with such drives.”— Nenia Campbell, amazon.com