“Oh I can't explain. When I like people immensely I never tell their names to any one. It is like surrendering a part of them. I have grown to love secrecy. It seems to be the one thing that can make modern life mysterious or marvellous to us. The commonest thing is delightful if one only hides it.”— Oscar Wilde, amazon.com
“We may not be aware of it, but we are constantly changing our loyalties. The external self claims us at work or enjoying ourselves at a party or buying a new house. The private self claims us in matters of the heart, in moments of depression and anxiety, and in our family life. The unconscious self…”— Deepak Chopra, huffingtonpost.com
“Everyone lives three versions of themselves; a public life, a private life and a secret life.”— Lauren Beukes, amazon.com