So what is a guy thinking when he meets an independent woman? He wants in. He wants to be part of her fabulous life— but at the same time he isn’t afraid that she will become too needy. One of the most common male fears about relationships is the fear of being smothered.
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Independence and self-determination are important traits of the high-value woman. She has a life that she adores and is engaged in meaningful activities that make her passionate about each day. She may have a job she loves, but she also fills her leisure time with activities that appeal to her creat…
A woman who is certain knows what she is looking for in a man and never settles for less than her highest standards. She thinks, If a guy can’t meet my needs, he’s not right for me.
The self-confident woman is comfortable in social situations, even if she is shy. When this woman goes to a party, she’s secure in her own desirability. She doesn’t waste her time comparing herself with other women, or trying to blend in, or looking to others to dictate how she’s going to behave. If…
If she is not getting what she wants or needs from a relationship, the self-confident woman will feel comfortable articulating her needs or walking away.
It’s important to ask yourself this two-part question: What are you overvaluing about him at that moment? And, more important, what are you undervaluing about yourself?
Instead of approaching a guy with the intention that he might be The One, do it with the notion that you will never see or talk to him again.
And this is not just linked to men. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to stay with a guy who continuously needs to be reassured that you still love him, like him, are fond of him, etc.
Some women try to cling on, they try to fix it... but I always tell my coaching clients: ‘you get one chance per person per lifetime’.
Don’t request or expect something from him that he doesn’t want to give you on his own.
A loss of freedom. That’s what they fear.
Your mind will come up with 101 reasons or excuses why he’s not calling, but the bottom line is this: he’s no longer interested.
Another topic to avoid are your exes, your past relationships. Don’t say anything about your ex, especially when he dropped you for any reason. The guy you’re talking to will see you as a victim; he’ll wonder what’s wrong with you, especially when you’re good looking. He’ll suppose there’s a catch,…
The reason why insecurity is so deadly is that it will drain him of his energy. He’ll have to continuously walk on egg shells, trying not to say anything wrong, trying to not to start a fight for reasons he doesn’t even understand.
Let me give it to you bluntly. Most men would be more attracted to a woman who’s got regular looks but is full of self-confidence and is just fun to be around than a supermodel with a killer body who thinks she’s not that pretty and who continuously needs attention and reassurance.
This may sound sexist, but in general, women are looking for commitment, and men are looking for the feeling of freedom.
The guy who deserves you will know and understand how valuable you are, and he’ll work hard not to lose you.
There are two types of attraction when it comes to men: sexual attraction and emotional attraction. Sexual attraction signifies that he wants you and your body. He wants to be inside you. Emotional attraction means that he wants to be with you, be around you, hang out with you. The perfect relations…
Men love it when you want them; they hate it when you need them.
Why Men Run Away....1. You're being too needy and desperate: Men fear emotional responsibility.