“Some women have no idea that constantly giving non-committal men access to sex can have a detrimental effect on their self-esteem over time.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Ladies, I’m here to tell you that if a man tells you he has a commitment problem, nine times out of ten it simply means that he has a problem committing to you.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“If a man tells you he’s not looking for anything serious… believe him. And if a guy is clearly giving you those early warning signs that he’s only in it for the short-term… get out before you get too comfortable and things become too difficult to break off.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“If you’ve been dating a guy for several months and haven’t met any of his friends, you may be nothing more than a short-term prospect to him. The reality is, unless he’s a weirdo with zero social connections, when a guy is serious about the woman he’s with he’ll eventually want to show her off to hi…”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Your dignity should always be more important than your relationship status.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“A woman can save herself from a ton of heartache and disappointment by being willing to wait for the Mr. Right who also wants the right kind of commitment.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Do not confuse a great guy with the right guy. A man might be an irresistible catch and yet he may still not be ready or willing to give you the commitment you want.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Sometimes the very thing you’re hiding from the world might be the one thing that makes you exceptionally beautiful to a man.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“In the early stages of a courtship, a man (especially one with a bit more experience with women) will try to gauge your level of interest in him while he evaluates your potential importance all at the same time. Showing your infatuation too early reveals your high level of interest in him before he…”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“The thing is, if you’re just getting to know a guy and you reveal too much information about your unlucky dating past, he’s going to wonder what is it about you exactly that attracts players, losers, time wasters, and one-night-stands. He’s also going to wonder if you have a problem accurately judgi…”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“It will be to your best advantage not to always be the one who initiates contact between the two of you.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Being a challenge will not only increase your chances of maintaining his interest, but it will also separate the lazy men from the ambitious ones.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“It’s not a contradiction when you hear men say they want a challenge but that they don’t want a woman who plays games. What men really mean when they say this is that they want a woman who has high standards, who presents herself as a worthy companion, and who also has zero tolerance for guys who pl…”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Giving a man total access to your time and attention, especially early on in a budding romance, is the kiss of death.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Trust me, for a guy who wants to distance himself from you, the only thing contacting him does is reaffirm what he already believes about you: That he can do better than you.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Presenting yourself as a mature, confident, and desirable woman makes you appear highly selective, high status, and therefore, highly valuable to the opposite sex. Remember that.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Interestingly, every time you walk away from a distasteful dating situation you make an investment in your self-respect.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Never risk your self-respect by trying to force a man to take an interest in you. It is better to disregard a man who displays a wavering interest than to lose both your dignity and sanity fighting for his attention.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Letting a man dominate the initiation of contact is the only sure way you can gauge his level of interest.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com
“Never be too accessible. Before a serious relationship develops, do not allow yourself to be too available to a man as men quickly tire of that which is easily obtained.”— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com