“They’re always more than down for a sleepover but expect YOU to do all the work (if you know what I mean).”— Dana Dicarlo, thetab.com
“He’s the king of ‘Netflix and Chill’ at his place, with zero intentions of actually watching the flick. He only wants to touch you inappropriately, hoping you’ll be woo’d and end up having sex with him.”— Niki McGloster, elitedaily.com
“No one actually cares if you're still a virgin. Yes, it seems like all anyone talks about is sex and like all of your friends are doing it and like the plot of 8 million movies involves Losing It. But trust us: You are not the last untouched human on Earth. Not even close.”— Kim Tranell, seventeen.com
“The first time you have sex, you need to make sure you are prepared, mentally and physically. Your reasons for having sex must be something other than "I want him to like me more" or "He says I have to or he'll dump me". Guys who pressure girls into sex are nothing but jerks. They aren't worth your…”— Adam Marshall, helpingteens.org
“You can stop whenever you want. Regardless of how turned on your partner is or whatever deed of angels they may have done, you do not owe them sex. Ever. You should know that if you're uncomfortable at any point, you should ask your partner to stop immediately and assert it more forcefully if they d…”— Sukhmani Waraich, vagabomb.com
“Are you emotionally and mentally ready to have sex? For most women, sex and emotions cannot be separated – it’s how we’re wired. We release a bonding chemical called oxytocin during sex that can leave us catching feelings if we’re not too careful. If you’re not sure if he is worthy of the honor of d…”— Brooke Dean, madamenoire.com
“Honestly? Your first time might feel really anti-climatic. I know mine did. Once it was over, I was like, Wait, that's it? That's what everyone obsesses over?”— Jessica Booth, gurl.com
“It’s uncommon for girls to experience an orgasm during sex for the first time because they aren’t familiar with interacting with a partner.”— Katie Szymanski, hercampus.com
“It can take some people literally years before they figure out how to orgasm with another person, so don’t expect it to happen right off the bat.”— Casey Gueren, buzzfeed.com
“He'll start squeezing his glass or can or roll it from side to side, slightly squeezing it as he does so. When men are sexually interested, they start playing with circular objects. Why? They remind him of your breasts: his body is "leaking" what's happening in his subconscious mind.”— Tracy Cox, wdish.com
“Be vocal about any kinks you have. If the guy likes you, he'll likely be into your kinks. And if you like him, help him figure out how you like it. It'll bring you closer sexually and emotionally.”— tracydick, reddit.com
“Communicate. We know how to jack it, not what specifically works for you. And guess what. We want to know.”— Mariodroepie, reddit.com
“Enthusiasm. You don't need to be a pornstar, but it's not fun having sex with a wet blanket. Make it seem like it's something you both want, not like it's a chore for you.”— reammachine, reddit.com
“Don't worry about how you look, be proud of how you look and show it off, that'll make you even hotter. I'm shoving a hard dick into you, do you really think I'd do that if I wasn't pleased with what I see?”— ElMachoGrande, reddit.com