“He’s pushy about getting physical. Some guys will say just about anything to get a woman to have sex with him.”— Matt Schneiderman, match.com
“He goes for sex straight away. If he invites you back to his apartment to ‘watch a film’ on the first meeting/ date, that’s usually all he’s after.”— Lara Bright, thoughtcatalog.com
“Staying in from time to time is fine, but when it’s every single night and all you do is have sex, he’s using you for just that. Don’t fall for the lack of money excuse. There are lots of free date ideas.”— Christy Rasmussen, herinterest.com
“He only likes to have sex in complete darkness. It could mean that he has body issues, but it could also mean he sees you as a body and only a body.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“You go down on him all the time, but you can’t even remember the last time that he went down on you.”— Holly Riordan, thoughtcatalog.com
“Maybe he takes you to dinner one night, and then he doesn’t respond to your Facebook messages for a week. Maybe you attend a party hand in hand, and then he suddenly goes MIA for the next three days. If this is the case, collegiettes, it’s more than likely you’re just convenient side entertainment o…”— Ashley McDonald, hercampus.com
“From the first time you met him and spent time alone together, you’ve slept together. You’ve never been with him and not been intimate.”— Ryder Ramsey, thetalko.com
“There is zero cuddling happening. Sex can be a very intimate act. If your partner doesn’t show any physical affection outside of the act of sex itself, the sex is probably all they’re interested in.”— Meredith Hirt, gurl.com
“A guy who is really into you will communicate regularly. A guy who is in it to sex it, calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your man's name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situa…”— Tristan Coopersmith, sheknows.com
“He gets angry if you don’t want to have sex. When a man loves your company and enjoys being with you - he just wants to be near you. You can invite him over to play a board game or to watch a movie.”— Larry Schwimmer, huffingtonpost.com
“Dates are pizza at your place. Men who are interested in courting you and getting to know you - want to be out in public, doing things with you, whether it’s going to a gallery opening or a chic new restaurant for a romantic dinner. Men who are only interested in sex don’t want to invest time or mon…”— Larry Schwimmer, huffingtonpost.com
“He makes it really hard for you to sleep over. He never straight-up says you have to leave (That wouldn't get him a next hookup!) but he always has a "thing" really early the next morning.”— Frank Kobola, cosmopolitan.com
“He gets frustrated when you invite him over to watch a movie and actually just want to watch a movie.”— Frank Kobola, cosmopolitan.com
“The sex feels special. Both of you have an equal desire to make the other person feel good. Sex is something you do for fun, but you also feel like it brings the two of you emotionally closer. Something about sex with him is different.”— Lesley Marchant, glamour.co.za
“Romancing a man doesn’t have to result in you breaking the bank or revealing your deepest feelings for him. For some men, all it takes is you telling him how much you love him every single day or cooking him dinner when he needs a home-cooked meal the most. Being romantic to a man, so being his part…”— Desiree Dean, amazon.com