“If he makes up excuses not to meet your family and won’t tell his coworkers, friends or family about you, you can be sure he’s just using you.”— Shannon Yrizarry, herinterest.com
“When you’re in public and he’s giving women elevator eyes and making comments about their looks, you can be sure his heart is not with you. He’s just out for a good time.”— Shannon Yrizarry, herinterest.com
“He's never once called you his girlfriend though it's been months since you met and you've been seeing each other on and off. You ask him why; he avoids the question. He's so good at avoiding the question, in fact, that you've given up asking.”— Lorna Poole, yourtango.com
“He shows no interest in getting to know you or your interests. All conversations quickly veer towards what he wants to do with you (or to you) when he gets you in bed.”— Lorna Poole, yourtango.com
“As much as you’d like to, you know that at the end of the day, he’s not going to be there for you. Sure, he might be a nice guy and you might really like spending time with him. However, he’s not really in this to take care of you or be the guy that you can always depend on.”— Ryder Ramsey, thetalko.com
“When you go out, he doesn’t really care if other guys look at you. In fact, he might actually like it. If you flirt with other guys or even tell him that you’re dating other people, it doesn’t phase him. He’s not interested in claiming you as his own.”— Ryder Ramsey, thetalko.com
“From the first time you met him and spent time alone together, you’ve slept together. You’ve never been with him and not been intimate.”— Ryder Ramsey, thetalko.com
“He’s told you that you’re ‘hot’ but never that you’re ‘beautiful.'”— Deepika Singhania, newlovetimes.com
“You say you’re dating him, but you never really go out on dates together or do other things that couples usually do. He always just wants to ‘hang out’ with you when alcohol is involved, like at a party or a bar. In fact, that’s the only time he shows up for dates. If you call him to do anything els…”— Deepika Singhania, newlovetimes.com
“He may have bragged about how much money he makes and how much he spends, but when it comes time to pay, he always has an excuse for not taking the bill. He shouldn’t necessarily foot the bill for all your dates; the whole ‘the man should pay’ notion isn’t really fair. It’s fine to trade off paying…”— Deepika Singhania, newlovetimes.com
“He knows everything about you, but your knowledge of him is limited. Relationships are for learning about each other and seeing if you two are compatible. If he tells you very little about himself, he's either hiding something or he just doesn't want you to know him.”— Christy Goldstein, yourtango.com
“He tells you everything you want to hear, but doesn't show you the things he says. Actions speak louder than words, so if he's just filling you up with charming and charismatic words, without proving what he says is true, it's time to move on.”— Christy Goldstein, yourtango.com
“He always cancels plans with you. You're looking forward to hanging out together, but as soon as you are supposed to see him, he sends you a text saying he has to cancel.”— Christy Goldstein, yourtango.com
“If you’re a girl with a lot of money in the purse, you always need to be cautious about the kind of guys you date. Almost always, more than half the guys you date would be after your money than anything else.”— Gerry Sanders, lovepanky.com
“You’re his rebound. Are you dating a guy who’s just broken up with his girl? Or does your boyfriend spend a lot of time talking about his ex? If you’re dating a guy who’s still obsessed with his past, there’s a good chance that he’s still not over his ex and is using your intimacy only to stitch his…”— Gerry Sanders, lovepanky.com
“They never talk about the future. You don’t have to plan your wedding and your house and kids, but bringing up plans to hang out in the future is a good sign—and not doing it is kind of a bad one. They should be making more room for you in their schedule with more preparation than just a late night…”— Meredith Hirt, gurl.com
“They rarely talk to you when fully clothed. If you run into them at school or around town, it’s like you don’t even exist. Yet just a few nights ago you were naked together.”— Meredith Hirt, gurl.com
“There is zero cuddling happening. Sex can be a very intimate act. If your partner doesn’t show any physical affection outside of the act of sex itself, the sex is probably all they’re interested in.”— Meredith Hirt, gurl.com
“He never asks about your friends. Or your family. Or your job. If a guy's just looking for a fuck buddy, he'll avoid all the messy stuff.”— Clint Carter, womenshealthmag.com