“During oral, hold the side of your vibe against your cheek as you take him in and out. Your wet, quivering mouth will feel unexpected and arousing.”— Bethany Heitman, cosmopolitan.com
“Lie down in bed, and put a few pillows under your butt to prop yourself up. While your guy is giving you oral, run your vibe back and forth across your nipples.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“Your neck is an erogenous zone, too, so take advantage. Lie back on your bed, close your eyes, and lightly run your vibe up and down one of side of your neck before switching to the other side.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“Have your partner slowly run your vibrator up and down your upper thighs, getting close to your clitoris but not quite touching it.”— Korin Miller, womenshealthmag.com
“Get in the habit of taking your batteries out of the vibrator each time your finished using it. If you leave the batteries in, the vibrator may turn on to a very low speed (or you may leave it on low without knowing it) and this can both burn out the motor and make for some embarrassing moments when…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“If your vibrator has a point or an edge try touching yourself with the finest point of the vibrator. Next put the widest or flattest part of your vibrator against your body. When you focus on one point, the vibrations can feel more intense than when the vibration is being dispersed around a wider ar…”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“Always start on a low setting and work your way up. If a vibrator feels too strong at first you can put a towel between you and the vibrator, or just press it lightly against your body.”— Cory Silverberg, sexuality.about.com
“I suggest using your vibrator in conjunction with lube, which will help your toy glide gently across your clitoris instead of tugging at it. If you have a silicone toy, you want to avoid silicone lubes, which can break down your new purchase.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“In purchasing your first vibrator, my first recommendation is that you make an investment. You may be tempted to buy something cheap if you’ve never used a sex toy before, but I really think you’re better served saving up your pennies to buy a high-quality product. More money typically buys more tho…”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“If you’ve never had an orgasm before, you may find it easier to have your first one with a vibrator. If you’re regularly able to orgasm in other ways, you may find your orgasms to be much more intense when they’re coming from a vibrator.”— Vanessa Marin, lifehacker.com
“Press the vibrator against your clitoris while your partner continues his/her thrusting motion. Or switch things up and insert the vibrator inside your vagina while your partner provides manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris.”— Hannah Cutts, empowher.com
“You can allow the vibrator to slip inside your vagina, simulating sexual intercourse (but with a buzz). Return to your vibrator’s lowest setting and insert the tip into your vagina slowly, never pushing so far that you feel uncomfortable or lose your grip on the toy.”— Hannah Cutts, empowher.com
“Warm up your erogenous zones with your own fingers. Not only will this smooth your transition to the more intense buzzing of a vibrator, but it will also re-familiarize you with your personal anatomy.”— Hannah Cutts, empowher.com
“Bring the vibrator down to your groin area and start running it over yourself and pay close attention to what feels best. In a way, you will now be teasing yourself with the vibrator. If you then want to increase the pleasure, you can start bringing the vibrator closer and closer to your clitoris.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“You should find somewhere quiet, where you aren't going to be disturbed. Make sure you're relaxed and comfortable and suitably turned on. Different people need to do different things to turn themselves on. Some need to watch porn, some need to read some erotica or a romance novel, while others need…”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“Start by turning it on and playing around with the settings so that you can get an idea of how intense it vibrates. If you're already turned on, then you'll notice how pleasurable it feels just holding it in your hand while it's vibrating.”— Sean Jameson, yourtango.com
“If you’re really talented masturbate the other person or use a vibrator while you perform the rim job.”— Keeley Rankin, bettersexed.org
“Because this act doesn’t involve the typical body parts we involve in sex, it’s good to have hands free for stimulation of other erogenous zones either by hand or small vibrator.”— Katy Thorn, lelo.com
“Start by lightly circling the outside of his anus with your fingers or tongue. Try a small, thin vibrator. If your man wants you to proceed with penetration, you can lubricate the vibrator, or use a lubricated, covered finger.”— L. L. Wing, redbookmag.com