“You can change things up when learning how to ride him to do Reverse Cowgirl. Your guy still lies on his back, but you turn around to face his feet. Your legs should be on either side of his hips. Hold onto the bed or his legs for support as you move up and down, in circles or back and forth. Archin…”— Sean Jameson, badgirlsbible.com
“Take their penis or strap-on in your hand and help guide it into you. A little lube can help them slide in easier, especially if you’re feeling nervous. Lower all the way onto them. Then, slowly start rocking your hips back and forth in the direction of their head. Keep your pelvis in contact with t…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“If you feel really shy about experimenting with your partner, you can get a better sense of the movements by practicing on your own. Cowgirl is all about how you move your hips. Get on your knees on your bed and stuff some pillows between your legs. Try moving your hips around in a few different way…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“One of the reasons so many women freak out about cowgirl is because of the ways it’s filmed in porn. You always see porn stars flat on their feet, bouncing up and down at breakneck speed, and slamming down with a ferocious intensity. It looks intimidating, painful, and even a little terrifying! In r…”— Vanessa Marin, bustle.com
“If you want to ride a man, make sure you’re not the only one doing all the riding. The one on top is always the one who controls the sex and orgasms. So switch places a couple of times so both of you can feel in control of the sexual escapade.”— Kayla Kissinger, lovepanky.com
“You can start off by sitting down on your man with your feet on either side of your man’s chest. But after he penetrates you, bend both his knees up so you can lean your back against his thighs. And get your boyfriend to sit up so it feels like both of you are actually sitting down and cuddling each…”— Kayla Kissinger, lovepanky.com
“Slowly use your hand to guide his hard penis into your vagina. Savor it. Move up and down until you have teased the head of his penis through the entrance of your vagina. Enjoy those sensations. Remember if you feel good, the chances are so does he!”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com
“Don’t be afraid to look him straight in the eye. Establishing this kind of connection in the woman on top sex position can be incredibly hot, and it gives you the opportunity to communicate with him through facial expressions, dirty talk, or even just a simple smile that reminds you that it’s still…”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com
“Make sure that you are both turned on. He should be hard and you should be wet.”— Scarlett Robinson, youqueen.com