“Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Time, Self-Worth
“Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Difficulties
“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Growth
“All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up–that growing is an ever ongoing process.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Growing Up, Learning
“If we know exactly where we’re going, exactly how to get there, and exactly what we’ll see along the way, we won’t learn anything.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Growth, Learning
“Problems do not go away. They must be worked through or else they remain, forever a barrier to the growth and development of the spirit.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Growing Up, Problems, Learning
“If being loved is your goal, you will fail to achieve it. The only way to be assured of being loved is to be a person worthy of love, and you cannot be a person worthy of love when your primary goal in life is to passively be loved.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Love, Self-Love
“Courage is not the absence of fear; it is the making of action in spite of fear, the moving out against the resistance engendered by fear into the unknown and into the future.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Courage, Fear
“The mind, which sometimes presumes to believe that there is no such thing as a miracle, is itself a miracle.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Miracles, Belieivng
“Not only do self-love and love of others go hand in hand but ultimately they are indistinguishable.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Love, Self-Love, Loving Yourself
“The feeling of being valuable—‘I am a valuable person’—is essential to mental health and is a cornerstone of self-discipline.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Self-Love
“Throughout the whole of life one must continue to learn to live,’ said Seneca two millennia ago, ‘and what will amaze you even more, throughout life one must learn to die.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Death, Grow, Learning
“Dependency may appear to be love because it is a force that causes people to fiercely attach themselves to one another. But in actuality it is not love; it is a form of anti-love. It seeks to receive rather than to give. It nourishes infantilism rather than growth. It works to trap and constrict rat…”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Dependency
“The more honest one is, the easier it is to continue being honest, just as the more lies one has told, the more necessary it is to lie again. By their openness, people dedicated to the truth live in the open, and through the exercise of their courage to live in the open, they become free from fear.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Honesty, Truth
“So if your goal is to avoid pain and escape suffering, I would not advise you to seek higher levels of consciousness or spiritual evolution. First, you cannot achieve them without suffering, and second, insofar as you do achieve them, you are likely to be called on to serve in ways more painful to y…”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Suffering, Growing Up
“As long as one marries, enters a career or has children to satisfy one’s parents or the expectations of anyone else, including society as a whole, the commitment by its very nature will be a shallow one.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Love, Commitment
“Anyone who genuinely loves knows the pleasure of loving. When we genuinely love we do so because we want to love.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Love
“We are often most in the dark when we are the most certain, and the most enlightened when we are the most confused.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Learning, Confusion, Uncertainty
“There is nothing beyond the limits of our vision. If we decide to study something, we can always find the methodology with which to do it.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Learning
“Discipline is the basic set of tools we require to solve life’s problems. Without discipline we can solve nothing. With only some discipline we can solve only some problems. With total discipline we can solve all problems.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Growing Up, Problems, Learning, Discipline
“Whenever we seek to avoid the responsibility for our own behavior, we do so by attempting to give that responsibility to some other individual or organization or entity. But this means we then give away our power to that entity.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Responsibility
“Human beings are poor examiners, subject to superstition, bias, prejudice, and a profound tendency to see what they want to see rather than what is really there.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: People, Judgement
“Even when we truly understand these matters, the journey of spiritual growth is still so lonely and difficult that we often become discouraged.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Learning, Spirituality, Loneliness
“It is not so much what our parents say that determines our world view as it is the unique world they create for us by their behavior.”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Spirituality
“I learned, however, that the loss of balance is ultimately more painful than the giving up required to maintain balance. It is a lesson I have continually had to relearn. As must everyone, for as we negotiate the curves and corners of our lives, we must continually give up parts of ourselves. The on…”— M. Scott Peck,, amazon.comTagged: Life, Learning, Growing Up Digital, Sacrifice