25 Of Ari Eastman's Most Refreshing And Empowering Quotes To Help You Find Your Inner Strength

“When it’s right, you won’t be swimming in doubts.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“You’re single because you haven’t met someone who makes the alternative seem like the better option. Some might toss words your way like ‘picky’ or ‘selective’, but why should that be a bad thing?”

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“Don’t you see? You were born a revolution. Not all men were made to join you in your brilliance. Not all men can handle fire. Some men will run, too afraid of the flames.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“I read the last paragraph of my favorite book. I remind myself that some things I love end. And that’s okay.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“Truthfully, I am much stronger than most people give me credit for.”

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“Everyone has doubts. Everyone freaks out about where they are in life. But that’s a good thing. You’re open to change and growth.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“My pain is just as valid as my joy.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“You loved. And that’s the most beautiful thing any of us can do.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“I keep loving loudly. I keep trying, giving myself and my heart and everything else I have to give. And I’m not sorry for it. I’m not sorry for being this way, for not holding back. I’m not sorry for wanting to take a chance that could leave me bruised and embarrassed than to not say I tried at all.…”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“When your voice carries too much strength, they will ask you to lower your volume. You’ll see your (very often) male counterpart speak at the same decibel and wonder why he is congratulated and you are shushed. When you speak your mind, they will find flaws in every word you say. There will days whe…”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“If I care about you, you’ll know it with every word I use. You’ll see it in every action I perform. I don’t want you to question how I feel. I’m not interested in pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m not afraid to text you first.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“I love men. But I’m still a feminist. Because the two things aren’t mutually exclusive. Just like I’d love my daughter and son the same amount. I want them to have the same opportunities. I want them to be respected for who they are, not their gender.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“When he tells you he wants you only to soften the blow of what will come next, do not allow your heart to believe she is safe. Send her on a rocket ship to the moon, or sun, or anywhere far enough that his words won’t reach. Let lack of gravity do its job.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“It never crossed my mind how much happier I’d be once you were gone. That’s the thing with toxic people, we can’t see how much damage they were doing until we’ve put the needed distance between. For all the times you made me laugh, I conveniently blocked out the tears and emotional punches. I painte…”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“You’re single because you know what you deserve and you haven’t found it yet. And you know that being with the wrong someone is often worse than being alone. You’re single because you just are. And frankly, you don’t owe anyone an explanation. You don’t ever owe the world an answer.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“Your softness is power. Your softness is what keeps you trudging onward. Kiss those who doubt you goodbye, and hope that they find the inner kindness you already possess.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“You owe it to yourself to have the kind of love that sticks around. Something mutual, something that feels safe and taken care of. The kind of feeling that only increases with strength the longer you’re together.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“If he is afraid of your strength, do not let your muscles atrophy. Do not ask him what you can do to be weaker. If you soften your voice, will it make him stay? Can you shape-shift into something that doesn’t threaten his masculinity? If he cannot handle you as the powerhouse you are, you need to le…”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“But if you want something magic, you have to be open to looking for it. You have to be ready with outstretched arms when it finally arrives. You need to know that magic, as all things do, still requires work. Your Great Love is going to be so, so great. Don’t wait around passively for it. Go look. G…”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“I was not made to love quietly. I have never known how to do it. I shout my emotions without thinking twice. I unzip myself for the entire world to see.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“Self-love is necessary because it gives you the tools to survive in this lifetime. And it’s something you can do on your own. You don’t need to depend on anyone else to give you your worth or value. You hold all the power, and in a world that you can’t control, that’s an empowering feeling.”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“That is not weakness. Experiencing pain because someone you love(d) is no longer a person you can call at 2 AM when you can’t sleep is not weakness. Crying when you come across old photographs and the memories hit you like a slap in the face is not weakness. Missing someone who you cared for is not…”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“You warrior with a purple heart. You lover with a Grand Canyon of possibility. There is so much space in you. That’s a good thing. That’s beautiful”

— Ari Eastman, thoughtcatalog.com

“My personal mantra is a simple one: ‘Survive, and when possible, thrive.’ To me, that just means taking care of myself. My success comes from honoring how I feel, and recognizing when it’s time to thrive, and when it’s time to just survive.”

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“It’s easy to get lost in just how difficult this world can be.”

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