51 Dating Tips I Wish I Followed Before Right Now

“Men aren’t that complicated. If a guy says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship, he means it. If he isn’t taking steps to be with you, it’s because he doesn’t want to. If you can’t tell how he feels, then you actually already know how he feels. See? Not complicated.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“You must want to be treated right by the right man far more than you want male attention.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“More than anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too emotionally dependent on him.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“While I don’t advocate chasing or pursuing a man, there’s nothing wrong with initiating contact.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“The more rational and calm you remain, the more emotional he will become.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“Always be classy. Never be crazy.”

— Greg Behrendt, amazon.com

“Don’t be so blunt, obvious, or available.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com

“If you make a man your ‘world’ before he even gets a chance to know you, you’re going to scare him off.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Here’s the ugly truth: If you make anything too easy for a man, especially an ambitious man, you’re setting yourself up for a disappointing relationship. High-status, high-quality, ambitious men are goal-driven and love having to work towards something. If you give him your full time and attention t…”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.”

— Taylor Swift, glamour.com

“Let me give it to you bluntly. Most men would be more attracted to a woman who’s got regular looks but is full of self-confidence and is just fun to be around than a supermodel with a killer body who thinks she’s not that pretty and who continuously needs attention and reassurance.”

— Brian Keephimattracted, Brian Nox, amazon.com

“When things are good, they are so good. When they’re bad, you cling to the good memories.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“This type of honesty is what I like to call too-much-information-way-too-quickly, and MOST guys don’t like it. To them, you may come off as a bit of a nut job, because everything you tell him is being evaluated by his limited experience with you.”

— Bruce Bryans, amazon.com

“Don’t ever date a man that takes more selfies than you.”

— The. I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies.. Betches, amazon.com

“Breakups don’t happen because of small details, they occur because the two individuals in their entirety simply weren’t a match. No amount of ruminating will change this so it’s best to just accept it and move forward.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“If you don’t value yourself, then you will always be attracted to people who don’t value you either.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“One of my favorite pieces of relationship advice to follow is if a guy says he's not the relationship type...believe him. He's not the right guy for you. Because when you meet the right person even if he wasn't into relationships before you, he changes. He changes because he doesn't want anyone else…”

— Kirsten Corley, facebook.com

“A lot of women are way too quick to dismiss a guy before really giving him a fair shot.”

— Sabrina Alexis, amazon.com

“Negative attention is still attention. It lets a man know that he has you— right where he wants you.”

— Sherry Argov, amazon.com