“The idea of letting a guy choose you gets twisted in modern dating advice. Women are told to hold back and play hard to get. But showing interest in a guy isn’t the problem. Only a guy with extremely low self-esteem will run from a woman he likes when she really likes him. The problem is when he…”Tagged: Dating, Guys, Relationships
“It’s not that men don’t want to commit, it’s that men resent being backed into a corner and forced into something. It’s not a matter of him not wanting to be official with you, or not wanting the relationship to progress, or not wanting to give you the love and affection you need, it’s the feeling…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“The sad fact is, most people are starving to connect in a real and genuine way. They want to be their authentic selves and feel loved for who they are. They want to be supported by someone who is their partner. At the same time, they are terrified that they don’t really deserve these things, or that…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“When a woman is needy, she isn’t receptive to what a man gives her because she’s always desperate for more.”Tagged: Dating, Relationship, Guys
“If a man believes he is winning in the relationship more than he ever could on his own, then he will commit. If he feels as though being in the relationship shuts down his ability to win (and feel like a winner) and that he would have an easier time outside the relationship, then that’s when…”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you believe that a man holds the key to your happiness, you are laying the groundwork for difficult relationships and chronic dissatisfaction.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“Happiness isn't owed to you, and it doesn't come from your relationship. You create your own sense of happiness and fulfillment.”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Girls have to be patient. Men are dumb, we're oblivious, we're not always in tune to a girl's feelings. It’s not because we don't want to be, we do want to be, we just need guidance. Tell me where to go and I'll take you there. I don’t need a girl to make it happen, I can do that. I just need some…”Tagged: Dating, Advice, Relationships
“Men are not as good at picking up on hints and nuances as women are. If you want him to do something, just tell him directly in a kind and loving way. No blaming, no shaming, no guilt-tripping, just be open and direct. That’s it!”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“It’s not what you say, it’s the way you say it. When you come at a man from a blaming or accusatory place, he will automatically shut down. But when you approach him from a place of love and compassion, he will rise up and want to do whatever you ask and more.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“For a man to really feel good about himself in a relationship, he needs to be with a woman who sees what he has to offer and appreciates it.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Guy Advice, Relationships
“The worst thing you can do is to try to turn him into what you need him to be.”Tagged: Dating, Guys Advice, Relationships
“That’s really all you need to do. Show interest, maintain eye contact, be happy, and if he likes you, he’ll take the bait and move things forward. If he doesn’t, then he’s not interested, and you should move on. Remember: When a guy likes you, it’s obvious!”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Most girls don't realize how anxiety provoking it is for a man to just approach a girl and give it a shot. It can’t be easy to constantly put yourself out there and risk rejection and feeling like a failure. When a man wants a woman and she rejects him, he feels that loss deeply.”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Being brought down destroys us, and the feeling of being rejected is so crappy we would rather avoid it, even if that means losing a potential opportunity. If I'm out and see one girl in the room I'm interested in but think she'll reject me, I won't even bother,”Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationships, Guy Advice
“When it comes to relationship fears, most women fear being unworthy of love while men typically fear not being good enough.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love, Guys
“The reason most of us have such a hard time pushing past a man’s walls and reaching him deeply is that we fixate on our own wants, our own worries, our own fears, our own needs, and pay no attention to how he feels and experiences things.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“An important thing to realize is that often when we feel upset or disappointed by a guy, it’s actually a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. We don’t feel good about ourselves and we want him to give us assurances that we are worthy and lovable, to prop up our sense of self-worth. When he…”Tagged: Dating, Relationship, Guys
“A man also needs to feel like his girl has his best interests at heart — that she can give him space when he needs it, doesn't always prioritize her needs over his, and respects his wishes.”Tagged: Dating, Relationship, Guys