“If a man believes he is winning in the relationship more than he ever could on his own, then he will commit. If he feels as though being in the relationship shuts down his ability to win (and feel like a winner) and that he would have an easier time outside the relationship, then that’s when…”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you believe that a man holds the key to your happiness, you are laying the groundwork for difficult relationships and chronic dissatisfaction.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“Happiness isn't owed to you, and it doesn't come from your relationship. You create your own sense of happiness and fulfillment.”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Girls have to be patient. Men are dumb, we're oblivious, we're not always in tune to a girl's feelings. It’s not because we don't want to be, we do want to be, we just need guidance. Tell me where to go and I'll take you there. I don’t need a girl to make it happen, I can do that. I just need some…”Tagged: Dating, Advice, Relationships
“Men are not as good at picking up on hints and nuances as women are. If you want him to do something, just tell him directly in a kind and loving way. No blaming, no shaming, no guilt-tripping, just be open and direct. That’s it!”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“It’s not what you say, it’s the way you say it. When you come at a man from a blaming or accusatory place, he will automatically shut down. But when you approach him from a place of love and compassion, he will rise up and want to do whatever you ask and more.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“The worst thing you can do is to try to turn him into what you need him to be.”Tagged: Dating, Guys Advice, Relationships
“That’s really all you need to do. Show interest, maintain eye contact, be happy, and if he likes you, he’ll take the bait and move things forward. If he doesn’t, then he’s not interested, and you should move on. Remember: When a guy likes you, it’s obvious!”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Most girls don't realize how anxiety provoking it is for a man to just approach a girl and give it a shot. It can’t be easy to constantly put yourself out there and risk rejection and feeling like a failure. When a man wants a woman and she rejects him, he feels that loss deeply.”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“When it comes to relationship fears, most women fear being unworthy of love while men typically fear not being good enough.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love, Guys
“The reason most of us have such a hard time pushing past a man’s walls and reaching him deeply is that we fixate on our own wants, our own worries, our own fears, our own needs, and pay no attention to how he feels and experiences things.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“An important thing to realize is that often when we feel upset or disappointed by a guy, it’s actually a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. We don’t feel good about ourselves and we want him to give us assurances that we are worthy and lovable, to prop up our sense of self-worth. When he…”Tagged: Dating, Relationship, Guys
“A man also needs to feel like his girl has his best interests at heart — that she can give him space when he needs it, doesn't always prioritize her needs over his, and respects his wishes.”Tagged: Dating, Relationship, Guys
“When you express appreciation to a man for the things he does, he will do even more. That’s because appreciation taps into the deepest core of a man. It’s not just about saying ‘thank you’ when he does something nice, although that’s important. Really appreciating a man comes down to seeing who he…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“Discover his values, his motivations, what he wants out of life and how he goes about achieving it, and appreciate him for these things.”Tagged: Dating, Guys, Relationships
“When you're in the wrong relationship, you're stuck in your head thinking about it. When you're in the right relationship, the impulse to worry or analyze doesn't cross your mind because you're too busy enjoying it and enjoying your life.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“When a guy is sending confusing signals, it usually means he’s somewhat interested… but not enough.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“What women call ‘mixed messages’ are actually one very clear message: He doesn’t want to be with you.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love, Guys
“If you're worrying about or analyzing whether or not he likes you, you already have your answer.”Tagged: Guys, Dating, Relationships