I’m promoting realistic thoughts that you aren’t competing with other women of the world, only the woman looking back at you in the mirror.
Catalog
G.L. Lambert
A Game Changer doesn’t stand out because she’s doing what men want women to do, she stands out because she doesn’t give a fuck about what a man wants her to do. She’s confident in her skin, and because she reaches the level of truth where she can project power without running her mouth, a man knows…
Most women don’t date to learn, they date to be liked. Most women don’t have sex because he earns it, they have sex because the combination of hormones, fear of him getting it elsewhere, and the pressure he puts on you in private, becomes enough.
A man can lie and say that his last girlfriend cheated on him and that he just wants to find someone to trust. If you choose to believe that lie at face value without vetting him, that’s your fault.
A man will only fuck you over if you let him.
An alpha male is not on the hunt for a breadwinner. Ideally, he wants a partner who can take care of herself and is impressive in her own right, not a spoiled brat with no drive, but ambition is a character trait which is not solely defined by her job title or where she went to school.
Typical women list typical qualities because they aren’t self-aware enough to actually dig down deep and share what truly makes them special. Those qualities may add to your greatness, but none of them are so rare that you should lean on them like a crutch and expect a man to feel privileged to be…
Other people are only as powerful as you allow them to be in your world. Shrink the thoughts you give them, and you will literally shrink their role in your life.
Be nice to people, be kind, and be considerate all you want, but at the end of the day, never put someone else before you.
You have to remember to remember until you can detach yourself from the impatience, the stress, and the anxiety that will cause you to relapse into the lie that you are the character, not the creator.
Nothing bad will happen because bad no longer exists when you understand that you are being controlled by true self who only wants to live life to the fullest.
Insecurity is the root of weakness because it causes your dominant thoughts to be controlled by the fear of not being good enough.
Making a man earn you is common sense, but when driven by a fear that the latest Mr. Right will pass you up, you overcompensate. Give him everything for free and watch how you get nothing in return but your time wasted.
Ask not what you can do for a man, but what a man can do for you. That should be a motto to live by for progressive women, but how many of you actually practice that?
Be proud of your accomplishments, but remember you achieved those things for your self-benefit, not to be more attractive to some guy so he will choose you over the next chick.