“When a man doesn't return a text or a call immediately, it is not an accurate indicator of disinterest. He's most likely busy or focused on something else at the moment.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“Sometimes a man will stop responding because he doesn’t see the point in talking unless it’s for the sake of making a plan. Or sometimes he’ll just run out of things to say because it’s just not natural for him to talk and talk (or rather, text and text), just for the sake of talking or texting.”Tagged: Dating Advice, Relationships, Guys
“Men don't place the same significance on certain things as women do. While women see constant texts as a sign that a guy really likes them, men don't see text messages and two-hour-long phone calls as necessary or important for bonding and building relationships.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“You will never be satisfied in your relationship unless you learn to truly love yourself. If you don't genuinely love yourself, you will never fully trust that anyone else can love you.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Love
“When a woman is happy and not looking to get validation from the relationship, she transmits an irresistible vibe that draws her guy in, and he naturally becomes more invested in her and the relationship.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“When a woman jumps ahead and invests in a fantasy future, she becomes filled with fear and is no longer able to be present and in the moment. This blocks a true connection from forming.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“You are no longer in the here and now, seeing the situation for what it is. Instead, your mind is focusing on what it could be, and that’s when it becomes a problem.”Tagged: Relationships, Dating, Guys
“I am always on guard when a girl goes all in too fast and I'd say most guys are. No guy wants to hurt a girl; it makes us feel like really terrible people. Girls get very attached quickly, every guy knows this, so if I'm not ready to handle it, and I’m not sure I want to go all in, I'll just end it.…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“Men are not thinking about commitment or where the relationship is going. They are simply enjoying the time spent with you and building a bond and a connection. If it feels good, he’ll keep going with it.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“I was taking his words to be solid facts rather than expressions of fleeting feelings he was experiencing in the moment. Also like most women, I would jump way too many steps ahead any time I saw potential with a guy, and I would use any positive thing he said or did as proof that he wanted the same…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“The idea of letting a guy choose you gets twisted in modern dating advice. Women are told to hold back and play hard to get. But showing interest in a guy isn’t the problem. Only a guy with extremely low self-esteem will run from a woman he likes when she really likes him. The problem is when he…”Tagged: Dating, Guys, Relationships
“It’s not that men don’t want to commit, it’s that men resent being backed into a corner and forced into something. It’s not a matter of him not wanting to be official with you, or not wanting the relationship to progress, or not wanting to give you the love and affection you need, it’s the feeling…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“The sad fact is, most people are starving to connect in a real and genuine way. They want to be their authentic selves and feel loved for who they are. They want to be supported by someone who is their partner. At the same time, they are terrified that they don’t really deserve these things, or that…”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“When a woman is needy, she isn’t receptive to what a man gives her because she’s always desperate for more.”Tagged: Dating, Relationship, Guys
“If a man believes he is winning in the relationship more than he ever could on his own, then he will commit. If he feels as though being in the relationship shuts down his ability to win (and feel like a winner) and that he would have an easier time outside the relationship, then that’s when…”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“If you believe that a man holds the key to your happiness, you are laying the groundwork for difficult relationships and chronic dissatisfaction.”Tagged: Dating, Relationships, Guys
“Happiness isn't owed to you, and it doesn't come from your relationship. You create your own sense of happiness and fulfillment.”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice
“Girls have to be patient. Men are dumb, we're oblivious, we're not always in tune to a girl's feelings. It’s not because we don't want to be, we do want to be, we just need guidance. Tell me where to go and I'll take you there. I don’t need a girl to make it happen, I can do that. I just need some…”Tagged: Dating, Advice, Relationships
“Men are not as good at picking up on hints and nuances as women are. If you want him to do something, just tell him directly in a kind and loving way. No blaming, no shaming, no guilt-tripping, just be open and direct. That’s it!”Tagged: Dating, Guy Advice, Relationship Advice