“When you feel comfortable enough to ask a partner to grab some tampons for you while making a grocery run, you're likely capable of letting them know it makes you see major orgasm-sparkles when they do that thing, right there. In the same vein, they should indulge in the same kind of honesty. And guess what's hot? Looking at your partner's completely ecstatic face and know you're the one responsible for making it look that way.”