“As a feminist and a sex writer, I would like to live in a world where all types of orgasms, provided they’re the result of consensual sexual activity, are considered equally OK, regardless of whether a little (totally sterile, harmless) bodily fluid might come out as a result. I’d like to live in a world where women can give and receive pleasure without constantly worrying if their stomachs are too fat or their labia too long or if some otherworldly noises or fluids might come out. I would like to live in a world where women can give and receive pleasure with just as much abandon as men can, where it’s OK to feel ‘really frickin’ good’ without needing to know the biological reasons why.”