“• When it comes to oral, my clitoris is where 85% of my partner's attention should be focused. The rest can be pleasurable but they have to really know what they're doing, or it's just 'pleasant.' (I wish I could give specifics for 'know what they're doing'—but alas, this is not my area of expertise.)

• The nipples aren't the only sensitive area on the breast, stroking the sides and undersides can feel amazing.

• You can vary the angle of penetration without changing position (I thought this was obvious—it seems it's not always.)

• I don't need to have an orgasm to enjoy sex. I still have a great time, and neither of us has failed in any way.

• I don't always want my partner to last forever, sometimes I just want to see him come.

• Most men don't pay a ton of attention to the sides of the waist, but this is super sensitive for me.”