“Always keep this idea in the forefront of your mind: You are not trying to find out if the person you are flirting with or dating accepts YOU. You are trying to figure out if YOU accept HIM. Does he have qualities that you value? Does he make you feel good? Does he treat you the way you want to be treated?”
More from Maura Kelly
“When you have crazy chemistry with a guy, his natural body smell will turn you ON--to the…”
“Repeat to yourself before, after and during sex: This is not about love, nor will it ever…”
“Make it clear to the other person--and yourself--up front that what you're having is a…”
“If he's kind of annoying--BUT you have sexual fantasies about him nonetheless--that person…”