“Love is nothing at all if not spontaneous. This is why Valentine's Day is normally doomed. Love comes and goes, and you cannot say when you will be overwhelmed by passion for your partner, or for that matter, overcome by dislike. The cranking up of expectations merely makes love into an artificial, mannered minuet rather than an unpredictable, crazy frug... Remember Valentine's Day is no big deal. Love is for 365 days a year, not just for one.”